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Bluebelle | Ok, so i was with my first love years ago and was with my best-friend at that time all the time. I was in my early 20s then and a lot more naive, and it later transpired that my bf would cheat on me. At the same time, my best-friend also started a rship with her sisters fiancé, they're still together to this day. Her partner mentioned to me a few years ago that my bf would sneak down to her flat, she stayed just below me. I already kinda thought something probably happened between my friend and bf but never mentioned it - until a couple weeks ago! She denied it and acted offended which left me confused about whether I should feel guilty for accusing her, so I decided to ask horary tonight because I haven't spoke to her since! |
Radium | Probably |
Bluebelle | Is that from the chart..? |
Bluebelle | Is my friend Mercury and my ex-bf Saturn? If so, then they have, the chart screams it. |
GeminiKarat | Mmmh... Saturn and Mercury are in a mutable sign and succedent. That would relate to months on the one hand, but it was a 5th house matter. 7 units Is your question related to 7 years or 7 months?
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Bluebelle | It was about 7 years ago my ex and I would have split up,I just counted! I |
GeminiKarat | Thank you very much for the feedback! It helps to improve my skills. I am sorry for the hurt. |
Bluebelle | Well it was a q related to 7 years ago but are you saying something did happen between them, going off the cart? |
GeminiKarat | Yes, that is what the chart is showing. Although in real life that does not help to make your friend tell the truth. |
Bluebelle | That's what I thought it did too although I was confused by Mercury being retrograde so does that mean they never actually did anything? |
GeminiKarat | I do not see Mercury retrograde in this chart. 29 degree is not a good position for a planet as it makes no aspect any more and can indicate quarrels, crisis. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum36/HTML/000652.html
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Bluebelle | Mercury was going backwards so the last sign it was in was Capricorn, so it's last aspect was with Venus. |
Randall | Bump! |
SunAscendant | Let me play the devil's advocate for a second and say that your friend being at 29 degrees could mean she was in a vulnerable and tough place at the time and didn't mean to be a backstabbing b*tch, but still, she should not have done that. |
Randall | |
Randall | It could have happened. |
Randall | Did you ever find out? |
Plut0nian2 | Thia poat made me sad and angry.. If I got it right.. your best friend is in a relationship with her sister's fiance.. That should be enough for you to understand that she can not be a trusting friend.. If she did something like this (which is one of the worst ways to hurt someone) to her sister then I do not want to imagine what she is capable of doing to someone like you that is not even family.. Someone told you that your boyfriend was sneaking in her appartment.. what do you really think he was doing in there?? Like honestly.. I am sorry if I got something wrong.. and also sorry for actually not helping at all.. but please be carefull of the people you trust.. |
Bluebelle | Hi I just saw the replies now. I'm not condoning what my friend did and i stopped speaking to her for about six years because of that. We got in touch eventually and have met up a few times over the years, shes still together with ex sisters ex fiancee and they have a daughter together, and her sister had a son with the same man before, so my friends daughters brother, is also her cousin? Her sister is married now and they are talking, i dont know about family arguments because even back when they first got together, she said her sister said she knew and she thought theyy were better suited. Personally, I am much more monogamous and traditional. My friends relationship with this man has been tumultuous with cheating on both sides, including men on his side too, but they are still together!That is what made me distance myself over the years again because of all the drama. But we have known each other for years and I miss the familiriaty of a close friend youve known foor years and years only has... To update, we have arranged to meet a few times and ive cancelled. At one point I was almost apologetic about accussing her but i just always cancelled and I sent her a message a few weeks ago and she hasnt replied, which isnt like her. |
Randall | Thanks for the update. |